My husband is from Denmark. This is the fifth month that I have corresponded with Dane, whom we met in a trivial way, on a Dating site

I apologize for the missing synthesis

I I've been meaning to write in your wonderful club for a long time, but that's all, I don't have the spiritI need your advice. This is the fifth month that I have been corresponding on a Dating site with Dane, whom we have met trivially. I originally started writing about him out of curiosity, but he turned out to be a very interesting person. The site appeared about an hour later with me, so it happened that my curiosity grew almost in half a year, in correspondence with him. He's a military man, fourteen years older than me, but I'm not a girl either, I have a son. He is very beautiful, he does sports, and I see someone who loves life, in a good sense of the word, nature, animals, loves people, even if he should have seen a lot of negative things out of a sense of duty, he was in some"hot places", but this is not reflected in his view of the world. And very exciting, sometimes I'm surprised by his sensitivity even to details. Good behavior, courtesy, was never rude or vulgar on his part toward me or anyone else another person. About two months later, he asked me to come and live with him, but one day he called him at home, which I admit surprised me a lot. For me, he can't come to me because of his job, but that's the way it is.

I would like to see for myself the living conditions in his city.

I once told him that I only left when he invited me

He lives in a small town near the capital, in a large house alone, divorced, he has an adult daughter who is already married.

I work, but my salary doesn't allow me to go alone, and he once told me that honestly. He immediately promised to rent at any price, including tickets, without any conditions. I would like to go to him, although of course there are some concerns, since I have never been abroad. But the problem is that my knowledge of English is very limited, I understand a little German and French, he knows these languages quite well. He swears that he will meet with me and that I have a room in his house. I am concerned about what I should do first to get a Schengen visa, I know that I should have filled out a form indicating who I eat for, for what purpose, and so on. Girls, dear, tell me how to do all this correctly? I live far from Copenhagen, so I have to send documents by mail, then personally collect my passport and hopefully fly to Denmark one day. I am very much looking forward to your advice, I have admired your desire to help us blind kittens, I thank all of you and look forward to receiving answers.